An acquaintance of mine killed himself on Thursday. We really weren’t very close, so I assume if he thought, “I wonder who will miss me,” my name didn’t even cross his mind. I just wish everyone knew how their existence affects others. How, even if you’re a friend of a friend, even you just hung out a few times, you could impact someone’s life. We may not have even been close enough to call each other friend, but I was around him enough to know that he was a wonderful man. He loved hiking. He had mad dance moves, and wore suspenders frequently. He wrote books that he would only let his closest friends read. He was one of those people that you find yourself striving for their approval, because you just know that they are on a completely different level of human. I can’t help but be upset that a person so incredibly creative and understanding is now lost to the world. I don’t know how to even speak to my friends that found him in a pool of blood. He didn’t deserve it. They didn’t deserve it. No one fucking deserves that.
Please, everyone understand this. You may feel like your existence is worthless. No one would care, right? No matter how insignificant the person is to your everyday life, they care. They usually don’t see it coming, so they don’t act on it. If given the choice between your life and your death, they would choose life. So many little people in your life, even the smallest roles… They want you alive. They all want you to live.
Your friend’s friend that goes to your work a lot to eat. She really liked that movie you suggested to watch that one night. Her boyfriend still listens to Tom Waits, ever since you introduced him to his music. He now listens to it and wonders why you did it. She’s really, really going to miss walking by you at work and your smile and your wave, every time. A ghost of you in lingering is everyone. It’s been hard to sleep since the news.
I just wish you were still here.
Here are some benefits you gain from wearing the wedding ears and buttons on your honeymoon at Disney parks
Some will let you cut to the front of the line. Give you fast passes.
Everyone will wish you congrats
Characters you meet will give you special treatment
Free dessert at places to eat
They’ll give you free signed stuff from Characters
People in the park will wish you congrats (much like the happy birthday)
People are even known to give you gifts when they see you like pins and such.
Let the hotel you are staying at know and they will give you free stuff.
If people want let them know where your staying and they can send stuff to the hotel. Sometimes you’ll also get a free upgraded room if you tell them its your honeymoon.
When you make a reservations to eat anywhere tell them its your honeymoon and you’ll get things and special treatment.
Sometimes you’ll get free drinks. but most of all take it slow and enjoy your time together hang out be in love, Just have fun.